A Diva State of Mind

I just need to get this off my chest!!

I attended a Mayweather fight party last night and it was quite interesting….but more importantly, I met up with some male friends that I hadn’t hung out with in awhile. Please note, we are all friends and have known each other for about 4 years.  So while I’m reuniting with my friends, one of my friends asks me when we are going to hook up.  I look at this fool like here we go again .We have had this conversation before; he has talked to too many females I know, our other friend who he is really cool with makes passes at me too and I’ve known you for way too long to actually take that question seriously.   So I thought to myself (I seem to do a lot of that lol), why is it that friends hit on the same female like she is going to talk to all of you???? Now I can’t take my friends seriously because they have said things like this over the years but then again, how do you know if they are serious or not?

Over the course of the past 6 years, the majority of the guy friends I have from college have had a “crush on me,” tried to talk to me or have hit on me (yes we all hang out in the same circle so the guys are all friends too).  Yes it’s flattering when one person is attracted to you, but all of you in the same circle??? Is that suppose to be a compliment or am I being viewed as a piece of meat and everyone wants their turn?  I know over the years I’ve probably missed the opportunity to “talk” or be in a relationship with some really great people, but how can I take them seriously when all of the same friends have tried to talk to me? For the record, I will go ahead and apologize if I have offended anyone by laughing in your face, rolled my eyes, said “yeah right” and walked away, but I know guys talk and you guys have to know that you’ve all have made a pass at me.  I admit, I have flirted with some of my guy friends in the past because it is fun and I can, so why not?! But at the end of the day, they are still my boys and I love them as friends.  I know I may come across as harsh or I may sound full of myself and I definitely don’t mean to come off that way,  I just wonder in general why the same friends will make passes/try to talk  to the same girl and think that’s ok.